Digital Down Low Consulting
demystifying the *IDK's of social media and smart phones that kids are savvy to
*IDK - I don't know
Here is a starting place for parents or a good reference place after attending one of our presentations:
Great overview on apps….good for parents to have if they are rather clueless or need basic information:
www.today.com/moms/moms-you-ought-know-11-social-media-apps-teens-are-6C10833314
http://www.tomsguide.com/us/best-parental-control-apps,review-2258.html
Great Story on how the teenage mind works. Read this to remind yourself of how your brain and your child’s brains are different ;)
http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/2011/10/teenage-brains/dobbs-text/2
Videos we used during a presentation (which you can use yourself if our fee is not within your limits):
Funny video on comedian who freaks people out with their own Instagram posted information:
http://abc.go.com/watch/2020/SH559026/VDKA0_n96ufiyb/2020-322-steubenville-after-the-partys-over Steubenville sexual assault story. Must watch for all parents of teens! Parents watch before you show your teen and sit with them and explain)
http://www.ted.com/playlists/26/our_digital_lives.html
http://www.parentingteensonline.com/
http://www.parentingateenager.net/teensandinternet.html
http://www.hlntv.com/clusters/generation-overshare
videos and games for kids (Texting, password sharing)
GREAT GREAT Site…shows role modeling and how to talk to kids and so much more! Great go to!
http://cyberbullying.us/resources/parents/
Favorite blogs and resources. Go here to research your question and if you still need help, please contact us.
http://www.net nanny.com
http://www.commonsensemedia.org
http://www.netsmartz.org Great videos and kid friendly games and information on basic safety,etc..
Kidsprivacy.wordpress.com
ikeepsafe.org
http://cdn.netsmartz.org/tipsheets/protecting_kids.pdf (Good for basics online safety)
http://www.austinisd.org/technology
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203806504577181351486558984.html
http://www.anniefox.com/fc.html (Parent series of parenting tips from author of middle school confidential)
Recommended Books:
IRULES by Janell Burley
It's Complicated byDana Boyd
Brainstorm, The Power and the Purpose of the Teenage Brain, Dr. Daniel J. Siegel, MD
Cyber Savvy by Nancy Willard
lol...OMG by Matt Invester ( parents of high school and college age recommended reading )
Queen Bees Wannabees by Rosalind Wiseman (must read book to understand girl drama)
Masterminds and Wingmen is her boy book and a great take on boy issues. Follow her Rosalindwiseman.com
Sticks and Stones by Emily Bazelon (new, and helps us understand bystander role)
How to Hug a Porcupine by Julie A. Ross (perfect boy book)
Logged On and Tuned Out by Vicki Courtney
iDisorder by Larry Rosen (is to much creating mental health issues?)
reWIRED by Larry Rosen (so good uses of technology in school)
The Developming Mind by Daniel Siegel
Texting, Facebook and Social Media by Shawn Marie Edgington
HayThere Socia lMedia great site for educational or purchasing information
http://haytheresocialmedia.com/savingface/ for parents or educators
How to disable Geotagging: http://gcn.com/articles/2012/12/10/how-to-disable-smart-phone-geotagging-feature.aspx
Parental controls on iPhone:
http://www.bewebsmart.com/ipod-ipad-iphone/how-to-restrict-apps-by-rating/
Great article! How to age restrict apps and restrict in-app purchases.
Sources:
http://www.commonsensemedia.org/app-reviews reviews of media with age ratings
http://mashable.com/family-parenting/ If you want to be current on social media,
http://mashable.com/2013/02/08/tech-savvy-mom-keep-up-with-kids/ “Whac-a-mole” article
http://www.getnetwise.org/videotutorials/
http://www.netsmartz.org/
http://www.fbi.gov/
http://edudemic.com/2013/04/50-education-technology-tools-you-can-start-using-today/ “good” technology tools/apps
Web Software:
One-Click Safety Kit by Shawn Edgington (DVD)
http://kids.getnetwise.org/tools/
http://www1.k9webprotection.com/
http://www.internetsafety.com/safe-eyes-parental-control-software.php?
gclid=COGz7M2lkrcCFcJw4Aod01YArg
http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/
http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/school-is-out-porn-is-in.html
Family Contract Ideas:
http://www.safekids.com/contract_kid.htm
tp://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/Media/Pages/Media-Time-Family-Pledge.aspx?nfstatus3a+No+local+token ( media pledge )